Updated October 27, 2026.
The 4th anniversary at a glance
| Traditional | Fruit and flowers (linen, silk) |
| Modern | Appliances |
| Gemstone | Blue topaz |
| Flower | Hydrangea |
What it means
Fruit and flowers stand for growth: by the fourth year something planted has begun to bear. Some lists give linen or silk instead.
4th anniversary gift ideas
- A fruit tree for the garden or a potted citrus for the window.
- A flower subscription, one bouquet a month.
- Linen sheets or a silk scarf.
- Hydrangeas, the fourth anniversary flower.
A gift about the day itself
Whatever the material, the gifts that are kept are about the marriage. Four years after the wedding, the real galaxy that was overhead during the ceremony can be framed with both names and the date: a telescope photograph matched to the day, time and place it began.
See every year on one page: anniversary gifts by year, the complete chart.